One humorist took the song Jingle Bells and rewrote the verses to be
culturally relevant: “Dashing through the snow, with a high-def.
touchscreen display, o’er the fields we go, tweeting and texting all the
way! Bells on smartphones ring, making bandwidth bright, what fun it is
to stare and cling to a virtual world tonight!”
In other words, silver bells, tinsel, and mistletoe are being replaced
with smartphones, tablets, computers, and social media. Our tendency is
to pay more attention to screens than people.
May I suggest something to all of us this Christmas season? What I’m
about to suggest is going to sound like I’m Ebenezer Scrooge to many, but
I hope you will heed what I say.
Go on a diet! Not a food kind of diet but a media diet. Jesus spent time with
loved ones; He prayed for and touched the untouchable. I’m not saying
Jesus wouldn’t use the technology available today- He would. I am simply
saying He wouldn’t be so absorbed in it that He neglected the personal
touch.
Here’s what your media diet might look like:
- Plan ahead for people
time. Meet with family and friends without cell phones, computers,
iPads, or other electronics. “Quality time” comes from quality time.
Play a game, eat together, or wrap gifts together, without all the
techno stuff.
- Plan ahead for tech time.
What? Doesn’t this contradict what I just said? Not if you use the
technology to be together. Don’t let technology replace your
presence. Put on a Christmas movie with others, and actually watch
it. Watch a Christmas service online. Google ‘the meaning of
Christmas’ to see what it says. You get the idea.
- Reach out and touch
someone. Literally. Allow #4Lincoln to become part of your
Christmas living.
- Talk. Conversations
connect people. What we say matters. I said ‘what we say’ not ‘what
we text.’ Texting is less personal and you really can’t understand
what the person means. You can’t hear the tone of voice or the
non-verbal expressions which is 93% of the communication message.
Try the diet and then let me know what
you discovered. I look forward to hearing from you.
Blessings, Pastor Mark "The Bru" Brunott
P.S. How can a person be joyful when faced with trouble, difficulty,
fractured relationships, or discouraging circumstances? There is a way!
Come Sunday at 9:15 or 11:00 to discover how to be joyful always, and
bring a friend with you.
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