I came across a fascinating article in the Boston Globe entitled
“The New American Dream” written by Neal Gabler. He talks about the American
Dream and how it's changed over the last fifty years. The dream is no longer
about seizing opportunity but about realizing perfection.
Therefore, the career has to be perfect, the spouse has to be
perfect, the children have to be perfect, the home has to be perfect, the
social circle has to be perfect. And we will seemingly do whatever it takes to
attain this perfection, from plastic surgery to gated communities of McMansions
to the professionalization of our children’s activities like soccer and baseball
to pricey preschools that prepare 4-year olds for Harvard.
Gabler concludes the new American Dream is no longer opportunity
to get an education and strive to reach your full potential through
persistence, dedication and hard work but has morphed into perfection where we
think it is birthright to be rich, beautiful, brilliant, powerful and to live
not just the good life but the perfect one.
If you would eaves drop on our cultures thinking, you would
sense a shift of the American Dream into the Great American Right: “I am entitled
to the perfect car, house, spouse, job, fill in the blank.” So we do not
expect a chance at a job but the guarantee of one.
If there is a theme to our day, it’s that it is all about me.
The names say it all: YouTube, MySpace, iPod, iTunes, iPhone and so on.
It can be very easy for all of us to carry this same
“entitlement attitude” into the church. I am entitled to my musical style (and
it better be perfect), my seat, my parking space, my style of preaching, and my
ministry.
Paul said we need the attitude of Jesus who gave up his divine
privileges, humbled himself to the point of death...all for the sake of others.
(Phil 2) Let’s help each other take on the attitude of Jesus and live our lives
contrary to the cultures attitude. Remember, it’s not about me. It’s not about
you. It’s about others, especially those who don’t know Jesus personally.
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