Christianity has an image problem. People today view the
church and the people in it as hyper political (75% of those polled), out of
touch (72%), pushy in their beliefs (70%), and arrogant (64%). The most common
perceptions are that we as Christians are homophobic (91%), hypocritical (85%)
and judgmental (87%).
The reasons people today abandon the church is just as
sobering: no value in attending (74%), no time (48%), not interested (42%),
they always ask for money (40%) and boring services (36%).
So, how do we reach a culture for Christ when we have such
an image problem? I think part of the answer is building relationships with
unbelievers. (By the way, they don’t like being described as unbelievers but
you know what I mean.)
A friend of mine told me this week of how he and his wife
have been building a relationship with another couple who are unbelievers. I
think there are some lessons to learn from their experience. He and his wife
ate breakfast at the same McDonalds about 300 times a year. Eventually, every
employee knew them on a first name basis and started sharing their life with
them. Often times, my friends would say “we will pray about that for you.” They
didn’t preach, just showed genuine concern.
A solid friendship was established with the manager of the
McDonalds – even to the point where she invited my friends to the annual
Christmas Party! She was about to have her third child with her third boyfriend
when she discovered the baby had Down syndrome. Amazingly enough, she confided
in my friends asking them what she should do?
My friends encouraged her and her boyfriend to have the baby
– this became the tipping point for her to put her faith and trust in Jesus
Christ. Lukey was born and my friends were asked to be godparents. They
attended the eventual wedding of the couple and the first three birthday parties
of little Lukey. My friends led this McDonalds manager to Christ and are now
longing for the husband to trust in Christ as well.
Their story reminded me that in order to correct our image
problem we need to listen to the unchurched, genuinely love on them, engage in
conversation with them, accept them for who they are and explore with them what
an authentic relationship with Christ is all about. One on one might just be
the way we change our image.
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